Well, I don't hate to wear them. Mostly because I'm not a fan of the naked me. The clothed me is much preferred. And I am sure everyone thanks me for that. Finding the right clothes however, not so easy.I had a wedding to go to last Saturday. A very large wedding. A few hundred people at a nice golf course banquet hall wedding. And all I own pretty much are jeans and tee shirts. All that fit anyway. I used to love wearing clothes...but that was quite a few pounds ago. The how & why of those pounds are still being wrestled. Said wrestling will soon be finding it's way on to this blog. Scary - for me anyway. I hope it won't scare you.
Anyway - clothes. My mom & I spent about 6 hours shopping for a dress. The first thing we had to do was figure what size I wore. Turns out there are about 3 sizes...and they overlap Misses & Women. Which reminds me...who came up with that? Were they trying to be nice by saying Women instead of Plus? Or are smaller sizes for single females only? Hmmm....dunno. But I do know that the segregation made it that much more difficult to try on dresses. Most of the stores had the 2 departments not just apart, but on totally different floors. Sucks when you can fit into both. I did go home with 3 dresses though - score!
I tried on all the dresses for hubby & my Dad. This is the dress I decided on:
And no, that is not me in the dress :P If I was that size still, I would not have had such a hard time shopping for a dress. The color was great & the tiers were fun...especially when swishing.
But this is what I wore....it was already in my closet...I didn't realize the skirt still fit...
Notice the bracelet? It's from Roseworks Jewelry...thanks Ruthie! It rocks!
And the hair pins - from Brown Joey Designs. Part of one bloom was folded under in the pic, but I think you can still how pretty they are.
And they matched my shoes perfectly!
I just couldn't spend the money on something I will most likely never wear again. In the last 10 years I have only needed a dress this dressy once or twice. And I hope that when I may need one again that I will have won the wrestling match & dropped these pesky pounds. Without scaring anyone. And in the meantime, I have decided to make some clothes for myself and avoid the whole shopping experience. More on that later.
I looove that dress, but I would have been like you: it's hard to drop money on something I only would have worn once or twice.
ReplyDeleteGood luck with the wrestling! I'm going through it now-- I'll be a cheerleader! :)
I feel the same way about spending money on something that won't get worn again for a long time, if ever. I like the outfit and accessories you wore though!
ReplyDeleteI totally relate to the clothing and extra pounds dilemma. Your choices look great.
ReplyDeleteI am with you about sewing your own. It is much more fun to shop for fabric and patterns that clothes.
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